The Declaration of Independence famously guarantees every person the right to the pursuit of happiness. What does that right mean to you? What would truly make you happy? Is it a dream home? Winning the lottery? Having a moment in the spotlight?
Most people say, “If I had _________, I would be happy.” But would you? There are plenty of wealthy people who resort to drugs and run to psychologists to deal with their depression. Money alone, it seems, can not buy happiness. So what can?
A human being is a composite of flesh and spirit – a body and a soul. True, the body must be properly nourished in order to sustain life, but without a sense of purpose, that life will be empty. It is not enough for the body to be satisfied; the soul must be nurtured as well. And it is specifically when one sacrifices physical comforts or convenience for spiritual reasons that the soul is empowered, its being justified and elevated.
In fact, throughout history, there have been unique individuals who were so in tune with the needs of their souls that physical comforts meant nothing to them. What’s more, their very survival instinct was overpowered by the desire to connect with G-d.
This week’s Torah portion discusses Abraham, a man who risked his life for G-d. Time and again, Abraham’s conviction was tested, and with each trial, it became more apparent that his soul’s need – to connect with its Creator – took precedence over his physical existence.
Today, we live in a primarily free world. We are rarely asked to surrender our lives for our beliefs. Yet the challenge remains the same: Are we willing to put aside our physical desires for the sake of our souls?
Comfort and pleasure are the idols of our society. You mean you’re still driving a 2024 model? And you haven’t tried out the steak at the new restaurant? What’s with you? There is no end to the variety of delicacies, fashions, and gadgets available, each promising to help one attain that elusive “happiness”.
This week, the Torah challenges us to resist the temptation to endlessly spoil our bodies. Make one sacrifice. Be a spiritually-driven individual at least in one area. Make your soul happy.
With the promise of long-term physical benefits, people go for six months without carbs. For the sake of your soul, will you go Kosher for six months?
Shabbat Shalom
Rabbi Mendy